“Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply.”
Over the years, my experience as a counselor has given me an interesting view into relationships.
When a couple comes to see me, too often one of them attempts to communicate with the other, without being heard. Sadly, I watch their last attempt to keep the marriage together. The partner, let’s say the man, who has not really heard his wife, but has listened as if she was nagging or on a rampage over something, finally understands. It may be too late now for him now. He didn’t realize that what she had been saying all along was important. So important, that the lack of communication, the lack of listening means the marriage is now over. I see him groveling and trying to make sense of it all. In the safety of another person (me) she says, “I’m sorry, but it is just too late.”
Many of us have ended relationships and we know exactly when we are done trying. Prior to that, you have probably heard yourself say the same thing over and over. You are ready to get out. You think of the next step. Your attempts to communicate and the lack of reciprocating has left you frustrated and exhausted. You are done. Apart from the grief there is an exhilaration, a new freedom.A 30 minute Psychic Reading can be enlightening!Click To Tweet
When I am with clients and they are suffering over a relationship, I often ask, “When did you first know this was not the right man/woman for you?” More often than not, I hear things like When I first met her or The day we married. This is your intuition talking to you and it is important for you to listen to what you say to yourself.
Whether it be a love relationship, a work relationship or a family situation, “when you begin to lose your voice, your self-esteem, your sense of personal power; it is time to make some kind of a shift.”
Now this shift could be seeing a Counselor, or it could also be seeing a Psychic. In a psychic reading you can learn what you have to learn in this lifetime, in this relationship, and whether it could work or not. You can see barriers and how to get through them. Knowing if your relationship is Karmic (working out something from a previous lifetime) or one where you have total Free Will can be helpful.Cherish your life and cherish your relationships. Ask for help from a Counselor or Psychic when you are stuck. You deserve it! Click To Tweet