When I was first in training to develop my psychic abilities I was so excited to learn. I practiced with a friend who also took the classes. She was a nurse and I was a mental health counselor so I could see that her filter was physical and mine mental and emotional. We each had our strong suits, but we read the way we were taught.
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One tool we learned was how to see how “programmable” a person was. That was important. Some people take everything they hear and act on it without consulting their own inner guidance. I think it may have been Sylvia Brown who said that a good psychic is about 80 – 85 % accurate. I’m grateful that I get a lot of positive feedback from clients regarding my readings. Nevertheless, I always tell clients and friends to listen to yourself over any psychic, including me.
On a radio show where I was a guest, a young man called in who was entering into the military. The image I saw was that he would be in danger and may not come home. It was a split second decision I made to offer him to talk with me in private. I shared some positive information about him on the radio show and avoided talking about the blasts I saw all around him. In private I was able to read the situation and clear some contracts and curses that increased his ability to be safe.
Another situation was when I was teaching a Reiki class. One of my friends was taking the class and when I worked on her and showed the class how to get psychic information as they worked, I saw her body was full of cancer. Later, when we were in private I asked her if she was interested in what I saw. After telling her I saw cancer, she looked at me in shock, told me I was wrong and her denial about her situation was ignored. A few months later she joined the angels. Although I wondered if telling her were the right decision or not, my knowing she was full of cancer allowed me to be with her, comfort her and be healing in her life.
More recently a friend asked me to see if I could get any information on her lost dog. I thought about this, being a dog owner myself. It was a difficult choice to share or not. In this case, I saw the dog was safe and told her so. The images I got other than knowing the dog was safe was not necessary to share. It could have caused more confusion and pain.
You can see that being told everything the psychic sees can be confusing and overwhelming. I think that is the value of having over 30 years experience as a counselor. I like to focus on what with support the client and remove that which creates pain and suffering.
What clients generally receive from readings can differ, but listed below are some of the ways they benefit.
- Validation
Most often when I do a reading with a client they feel validated. They may come with a sense to the answer to their question. Having a psychic validate what they already know can be invaluable. It allows them to stop rehearsing the question in their mind, and relax and go on. And, it feels great!
- Peace of Mind
When a client gets a reading and finds out the “why” of a situation, it can bring peace. Whether the issue has to do with a past life or a spiritual contact, it is helpful to understand why a job or relationship plays out the way it does. So often it gives my client permission to accept what is happening and to understand they are not responsible. All of us have contracts to complete.
- Clarity
So often we need clarity. We get caught up in our view and stuck in our resistance and some clarity can be really helpful. The chakras that I read are full of information. Whatever is coming up for you is related to one of your chakras being out of balance. I use muscle testing to see which chakra and go about clearing, reading and answering your questions. I can attest to how important this is, as I also use a psychic friend to assist me when I need help.
- Connection with a Loved One
What I love the most is seeing a client open their heart when I connect with their loved one who has passed over. When they see me connect to their loved one and they feel them in their heart, it is amazing. Not everyone who has passed over has been loving and kind. Helping a client understand what happened and why can be a powerful healing. When I connect with their person, it is a shared experience between myself and the client – seeing, knowing and feeling the person that they lost.
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It is always wonderful when someone can get reassurance or comfort about unanswered questions or issues in their lives. It sounds like you have the experience and the compassion to tune in to others and to hold a space for them to find solace, Candess. What a lovely gift to give someone who is seeking confirmation about an intuitive feeling or some guidance on issues that might be holding them back from making decisions for themselves. It is lovey to hear how much you are helping people through the work you do!
Beverley thank you for the kind words. It is so rewarding to have a client light up and feel peaceful after a session. Validation is important too, and so many of us didn’t have our intuition validated as children, when it was most natural!
What a huge responsibility it is to decide what to tell people regarding what you see in a reading, Candess. Your years of counselling experience would be an enormous help. I really love your advice for people to listen to their own inner voice first. Too often, people ignore their intuition.
Thanks Tamuria. What makes it easy is to have a system to work with. I love using the chakra system. A reading is also often a dialogue, so it is not magical, but practical.
It’s wonderful to find more people being open-minded about what they can learn from a psychic reading. As you point out validation, peace of mind and clarity is a wonderful gift to be able to share with them. At the same time, knowing what you know requires a delicate balance that I don’t think most people realize. Thanks for enlightening us.
I am delighted that people are opening up to intuition. A psychic reading uses intuition and I see and hear people mentioning using their intuition a lot lately, even on main stream TV shows! Thanks for you comment Joyce Hansen!
This is a very interesting and informative discussion, Candess. I can see how so many split-second decisions go into your work, and they add up to who you are as a reader. Like so many skills, the skill itself is just the foundation, and the practitioner fills that out with their ‘filter’ and their intention.
It’s funny Reba. More often than having to not tell someone something, when I read symbolically and get information that is outside my own awareness and belief – that is what is hard. I’ve learned to just say what I see and it is so interesting to have people “get it.” One day many years ago I was reading a woman at a Conference in Virginia. I saw her in the nighttime in a Space Ship. I thought I was crazy. When I shared this with her, she said “Yes, I’m the Captain of the ship.” What is so fun is I read what they show me. I would never of thought of that myself.
What a beautiful gift you’ve been blessed with and thank you for sharing it. It must be difficult at times to know things about people but not be able to share the full story. You’re intuition and experience serve you well in these circumstances. I’ve wanted to do a reading & a clearing/cleaning for a few years, but it’s not the right time. Reading about some of your experiences was really helpful! I love the show Long Island Medium, and the peace that Theresa brings to people is so moving and amazing. You’re a special person Candess! Providing peace and guidance is a wonderful talent.
Meghan thank you for your beautiful and supportive words. Getting a reading can be powerful and life changing. Let me know when you are ready and I would love to gift you with a 30 minute reading.
I haven’t had a reading ever.. but I could not imagine being one to have that kind of information at your hands and having to decide if you want to tell that person, be the messenger, or the like. You are a great person and friend … and seems to know your business very well. What a gift!
Kristen thanks for your lovely comments. I would be happy to offer you a complementary 30 minute reading. You have a lot going on it your life right now!
Did you ever hear again about that young man? What an awesome responsibility to decide what to do with what you feel. I get feelings…but they’re wrong as often as right so it takes the responsibility off…except for warning people to be careful.
Cathy I didn’t reconnect with the young man. Often I have clients who contact me months or even years later for another reading telling me what I got right in the last reading. I teach people to access their own intuition and how to determine when they are correct or not. If you are interested you can download 4 Ways to Develop your Clairvoyance on my website.
I used to go for a reading every year for my birthday. It’s been a few years since I did that, but perhaps I should get back into the habit. I have a question. What do you mean when you say that you were able to remove contracts and curses? This is something I’m unfamiliar with.
So happy you get readings Jennifer. When I clear contracts and curses I use the Lords of Karma. They are a group of Ascended Masters that I have been working with for most of my life. Some of the work I do is to clear Earth Karma. You can find the workshop on my site. Hope this answers your question.
This is good to know. There are many psychics but some of them are just in the business to defraud. It is always good to come across those like you who is really there to help and inform about what is to be concerned about.
Thanks Lorii. I just know that having 30 + years of experience as a counselor helps. Rarely, but sometimes what surfaces can be overwhelming for the client. Having resources for them is helpful.
Wow, you are gifted Candess. I wish I could have a session with you, but you are so far away. What happened to the guy in the military? Did he end up going to war?
Apolline, I did not hear back from the man in the military. When I check in intuitively though, I get he is fine. It would be great if someday when I am facilitating an event in Spokane he shows up and shares his experience with me. I do readings with people via Skype all over the world so distance is not an issue.