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Two Powerful Tools!

by @candesscampbell

What are Two Important Tools you have at all times?

The ability to Say Yes and to Say No!

There are many reasons you go on auto-pilot with an answer.

  • You are so busy you don’t think before you speak.

  • You learned from your parents to always say Yes or No.

  • You are a people pleaser and Yes is an easy answer, even though what you are agreeing to may be difficult.

  • You are overwhelmed and No is quick and simple.

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Too often in decision making, you are on auto-pilot. This keeps you from using your ability to reason and more importantly, to listen to your intuition.

On any given day you have many opportunities to make Yes and No decisions. Today I’d like to invite you to become more conscious, more deliberate about your decisions.

It helps to have a notepad or a journal with you.

Photo by Jess Watters

When you are asked to do something, STOP yourself from answering automatically.

You may respond like this.

  • Interesting, I’ll have to think about it.

  • Let me ponder that and I’ll let you know.

  • Great idea. Let me sleep on it.

  • Thanks for asking. I’ll take some time to see if it is right for me.

So often I witness people who spend a large part of their day doing what they don’t want to do and making excuses why they can’t do what they really DO want to do.

Choice is a powerful tool! The more you make conscious choices, the more empowered you become.

Even taking time for yourself to explore how often you say Yes or No seems self-indulgent. Life is precious. Choose your Quality of Life and make Empowered Decisions.

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Learn more about your own Personal Power and balancing your Third Chakra!

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Two Powerful Tools! was originally published on Energy Medicine DNA

Two Powerful Tools!

by @candesscampbell

What are Two Important Tools you have at all times?

The ability to Say Yes and to Say No!

There are many reasons you go on auto-pilot with an answer.

  • You are so busy you don’t think before you speak.

  • You learned from your parents to always say Yes or No.

  • You are a people pleaser and Yes is an easy answer, even though what you are agreeing to may be difficult.

  • You are overwhelmed and No is quick and simple.

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Too often in decision making, you are on auto-pilot. This keeps you from using your ability to reason and more importantly, to listen to your intuition.

On any given day you have many opportunities to make Yes and No decisions. Today I’d like to invite you to become more conscious, more deliberate about your decisions.

It helps to have a notepad or a journal with you.

Photo by Jess Watters

When you are asked to do something, STOP yourself from answering automatically.

You may respond like this.

  • Interesting, I’ll have to think about it.

  • Let me ponder that and I’ll let you know.

  • Great idea. Let me sleep on it.

  • Thanks for asking. I’ll take some time to see if it is right for me.

So often I witness people who spend a large part of their day doing what they don’t want to do and making excuses why they can’t do what they really DO want to do.

Choice is a powerful tool! The more you make conscious choices, the more empowered you become.

Even taking time for yourself to explore how often you say Yes or No seems self-indulgent. Life is precious. Choose your Quality of Life and make Empowered Decisions.

[clickToTweet tweet=”Choice and Empowerment are Third Chakra issues. https://energymedicinedna.com/chakra-three/” quote=”Choice and Empowerment are Third Chakra issues.”]

Learn more about your own Personal Power and balancing your Third Chakra!

The Victim Archetype

by @candesscampbell

“The soul always knows what to do to heal itself.

The challenge is to silence the mind” 

 Caroline Myss

Previously I shared information about the Child Archetype and asked you to look at your relationship with others and integrate this information so you can see how you “show up” in relation to others. Today I will share about the Victim Archetype. The gift of the Victim Archetype is Self-Esteem.

According to the teachings of Caroline Myss there are 4 main archetypes we all share. They are the Child, Victim, Saboteur and Prostitute.

This information comes from information from Caroline Myss’ work in her Sacred Contracts book and the classes I took from her on Medical Intuition and Sacred Contracts. I have also added information that I have gained from working as a mental health counselor and chemical dependency professional for over 20 years.

In the process of self-healing, you have to come to terms with your victim self and move beyond this state of being. You can identify your victim, confront the behavior, love and forgive yourself and bring your energy into present time. In fact, unless you can bring at least 80% of your energy into present time, you will not have the power to self-heal. What do I mean by bringing yourself into present time? Watch your thoughts. Do you go off to the future (which can create anxiety) or drift off to the past (which can cause depression) or are you able to be present in the moment?

Enjoy exploring this archetype that can bring you high self-esteem once you embrace this part of yourself and move on!

Victim Archetype

Guardian of Self Esteem

Core issue is whether it is worth giving up your own sense of empowerment to avoid taking responsibility for your independence.

When you don’t stand up for yourself after awhile you no longer can tell the difference whether you are being victimized or not; so either you are being victimized and don’t know it or you are not being victimized, but act as if you are.

  • The victim archetype helps you decide what you will or will not do; a guardian of personal boundaries.
  • Lessons associated with the victim archetype demand that you evaluate your relationship to power, especially with people with whom you have control issues and have to set boundaries.
  • Primary objective is to develop self-esteem and personal power.
  • You have contracts with people whose primary purpose is to help you develop yourself-esteem through acts of honesty, integrity, courage, endurance and self-respect.
  • The victim will entice you to feel sorry for yourself.
  • You can act like a victim and give in or call upon your companions and guides for help.
  • Like the lion in the Wizard of Oz, you need to have the courage to look at your victim and make it your ally.
  • Do you victimize yourself in the way you interpret conversations with other people?
  • Does your victim alert you to protect yourself rather than letting people take advantage of you?
  • Does your victim motivate you to be shrewd in the dealings of whatever house it is in?
  • Does your empowered victim allow you to take risks in your life?
  • The victim urges us to act appropriately when we are in danger of being victimized.
  • The victim can alert us to being victimized through passivity and rash or inappropriate actions.
  • It can also alert us to how we victimize others for personal gain.
  • In shadow it may show how we play victim for sympathy or pity.

Join with me in delving into this Victim Archetype in your journal! Here is a helpful journal process.

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