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How Can I Love More and Care Less?

October 12, 2015 by @candesscampbell

Sometimes your intuition is clear and you choose not to follow it. You may meet someone and find yourself attracted to them, but your gut clearly says no! Your head reminds you of past relationships where your feelings were similar and you jumped anyway only to be hurt.

We all want to have happy, loving relationships and creating and sustaining them is difficult.

There is the Law of Attraction.

Is there a Law of Detachment?

Here is what Abraham-Hicks has to say about Love!

https://youtu.be/9qqw47eUHSM

You can find 4 Ways to Develop your Intuition at EnergyMedicineDNA!

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Astrological Report for October 2015

October 3, 2015 by @candesscampbell

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 October 8th: Venus enters Virgo at 10:30 am PDT. The New Moon in Virgo quickly conjoins Venus and Mars in the detailed & practical sign of Virgo as the autumn harvest arrives increasing standards of performance and deliveries.
 
October 9th: Mercury turns direct in Libra at 7:58am PDT.  Transiting Mercury steps forward in the sign of Libra after 22 degrees in retrograde helping the global village adapt to the 2015 autumn season.
 
October 12th: New Moon in Libra at 5:06 pm PDT. The first New Moon of autumn is in close opposition to Uranus in Aries indicating changes and uncertainty in the month ahead. October’s New Moon in Libra also aligns in a 150 degree aspect to Chiron in Pisces placing emphasis on health and wellness between now and November’s New Moon in Scorpio.

October 23rd: Sun enters Scorpio at 10:47 am PDT. The Sun makes its annual pilgrimage through the clandestine sign of Scorpio under a cloak of secrecy associated with behind the scenes activities associated with politics and international stock market manipulations.
 
October 27th: Full Moon in Taurus/Scorpio at 5:05 am PDT. The Full Moon of October  2015 aligns in close aspect to transiting Saturn in Sagittarius and the September 27th Total Lunar Eclipse bringing adjustments and completions to those with chart angles or planets between one to seven degrees in their natal charts.

Thanks to Lee of StillwatersAstro for this monthly Astrological Report!

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Giving an Astrology Reading or Compatibility report is a great holiday gift for the person who’s Love Language is Gifts!

October I am blogging daily teaching you to develop your Intuition. Knowing your Sun Sign, Moon Sign and Rising Sign will help you to understand yourself better! Follow me on Tumblr!

December Astrological Forecast

December 3, 2014 by @candesscampbell


“How did it get so late so soon?”

― Dr. Seuss

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Provided by Lee of http://www.stillwatersastro.com

December 4th: Mars enters Aquarius.  The planet of action places its emphasis in the social  sign of Aquarius spicing up the holiday season within 3 weeks of  Hanukkah and Christmas. A harmonious “trine” aspect between Venus in Sagittarius and Jupiter in Leo also brings a spark of levity to lift the holiday spirits.

December 8th: Jupiter stations retrograde in Leo at 23 degrees.  Expansive Jupiter steps back after five months of direct motion in the regal sign of Leo. Jupiter will station direct in Leo in April 2015.

December 6th: Full Moon in Gemini/Sagittarius at 14 degrees. The final Full Moon of 2014 closely opposes Mercury in Sagittarius and squares Chiron in Pisces which is likely to create stress and tension in communications for a brief period.

December 10th: Venus enters Capricorn. Transiting Venus prepares the Cardinal soil of Capricorn for the arrival of a unique initiatory Winter Solstice on December 21st highlighted by the New Moon in Capricorn within a fraction of the 1st degree of Capricorn preceded by Uranus’ direct station within just 20 minutes of the Solstice.

December 15th: Uranus in Aries squares Pluto in Capricorn at 12 deg 35 min. The continuing trials of the titans Uranus and Pluto meet once again for yet another transformational “square” aspect for the first time since last April’s Cardinal Grand Cross. Be prepared for more even more initiatory shifts in the weeks ahead.

December 21st: Winter Solstice/ New Moon in Capricorn & Uranus stations direct. The Winter Season officially begins as the Sun arrives in the sign of Capricorn at 3:03 pm PST. The Moon conjoins the Sun at 5:26 pm PST signifying new beginnings for those with chart angles or planets in the first 5 degrees of the sign of Capricorn.

December 23rd:  Saturn enters Sagittarius at 8:33 am PST.  Authoritarian Saturn completes 26 consecutive months in Scorpio to arrive in the intrepid fire sign of Sagittarius contributing to a noticeable collective shift from mid December 2014 through February 2015.

Want to know what 2015 has in store for you?

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Bless your heart,

Candess

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November Astrological Forecast

November 2, 2014 by @candesscampbell

Millionaires don’t use Astrology, billionaires do.
― J.P. Morgan

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Provided by Lee of http://www.stillwatersastro.com

November 6th  Full Moon in Taurus/Scorpio at 14 deg 21 min. The Full Moon of November is graced by the companionship of Venus in Scorpio in a close conjunction with the Sun projecting onto the Moon only to realize that lasting beauty, love and substance will be discovered deep below the surface rather than in the eyes of its beholders.

November 8th  Mercury enters Scorpio. Transiting Mercury completes its tour in diplomatic Libra as it dives into the post election murky depths of Scorpio for the next 19 days.

November 15th  Neptune stations direct in Pisces. Transiting Neptune reengages in forward motion near 5 degrees in its native sign of Pisces after five months in retrograde.

November 16th  Venus enters Sagittarius. Venus serves as a hostess to pave the way for holiday festivities in the sign of Sagittarius before moving on to Capricorn in December where she will reside for the change of seasons during the remainder of 2014.

November 22nd  Sun enters Sagittarius/New Moon in Sagittarius. The Sun joins Venus in the ebullient sign of Sagittarius and within three hours the Moon conjoins the Sun producing November’s New Moon in Sagittarius at 4:32 am PST. Today’s New Moon is the second of five consecutive New Moons near zero degrees beginning with last month’s Solar Eclipse in Scorpio on October 23, 2014 and continuing through February 18, 2015 as the Sun enters Pisces.

November 24th  Chiron stations direct in Pisces. Chiron steps forward in the mystical sign of Pisces at 13 degrees on a mission of healing after 5 months of retracing its steps.

November 27th  Mercury enters Sagittarius. Mercury lends its fleet-footed speed to accelerate the tempo of the holiday festivities through November 16th. Mercury has journeyed in three separate signs during this month of November 2014.

 

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Daughters of the Bottle

September 19, 2014 by @candesscampbell

Daughters of the Bottle

“Why not ask a Loving Parent to help us reclaim our childhood innocence and to live more gently today?” 
 ACA WSO INC. –  Adult Children of Alcoholics/Dysfunctional Families

This week there has been a theme of addiction with my clients. Alcoholism and drug addiction affect the whole family. I remember when I first became a chemical dependency counselor back in the early 1980s. One of the poems I…

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Sexual Compromise

July 4, 2014 by @candesscampbell

Communication between couples has evolved over the last decade. Often they actually negotiate their sexual desires with each other. Whether or not they come to a mutual conclusion is another story. Even television commercials poke fun at the difference in men and women’s libido and their desire for sex. Of course this is a general perspective and definitely there are women who are poking at their men too.

The scope of this article relates to committed relationships. Casual sexual relationships have a whole different dynamic that won’t be explored here. So let’s take an example.

 3It was an incredible night. Brandon and Emma celebrated their seven-year anniversary at Alinea, a modern Chicago restaurant with excellent reviews. Having had a busy week, they planned a quite evening together. As a law professor at Loyola, Emma worked long hours and at varied times during the week. Brandon traveled as an international broker and this left them juggling for relaxed time together.

After a delicious meal of king crab and scallops, with fine white wine, they walked along the lakefront in Lincoln Park, reflecting back on when they met. The first time in many years, they reminisced about their combined dreams. The night was perfect. The streets were unusually quiet as they visited a couple galleries and enjoyed the city lights. 

In the cab ride home they sat quietly enjoying the smell and the warmth of each other’s bodies. Emma felt content as she noticed they were breathing together as one. Once home, already having had a couple drinks, they moved directly into the bedroom. Intimacy had given way to work for the last few months, and they were finally at ease. They crawled into bed and she looked at him adoringly as she kissed him. She thanked him profusely for the wonderful evening. He began to kiss her passionately and his hands began to explore her curves. His expectation and hers collided.

She – had a wonderful night, hadn’t been intimate with him for a long time, has been stressed and busy at work, wants to close her eyes and experience the sensations of being in love and cuddle.

He – finally had time with his wife. Has not had sex with her for weeks. Planned this evening so they could finally be sexual again. Did all the right moves as far as planning goes and is ready to “finish the deal.”

Sound familiar?  We could change the names, city, careers, circumstances just like a fill in the blanks puzzle, but overall, internationally, the results are the same.

So, who compromises in the sexual arena and at what cost?  Her need and desire is for closeness, commitment, security and love. He desire is for a woman, Emma, who will be there for him, being sexual when he wants her to be, to share activities and the convenience of love.

She responds to romance and sexuality when there is ambiance, connection, closeness and communication. Brandon focuses on his virility and what I refer to as his “puffing peacock” stance. History between Brandon and Emma around negotiating intercourse has shown him this is a precarious time, so he is aware of not triggering any reactions from her.

Nevertheless, whether or not the evening ends with the couple joyfully entangled or not – who’s to know? Maybe you can relate.

Who is responsible for ones sexual expression, sexual desire, and sexual pleasure? This case was not so extreme, but what would you do if you were in a committed relationship or marriage and your partner/spouse continually said no?  Is it your moral and religious obligation to stay; to stay faithful and live the rest of your life without being sexual with your wife or husband?

If you are a woman who is sexually unresponsive or non-orgasmic, either due to lack of physical desire (possibly hormonal,) illness, or having a husband who goes straight to the sexual act with no ability or understanding how to engage you and fire your desire; what do you do?

At what point do women add having sex to their list along with doing the laundry, picking up groceries and attending their daughter’s dance recital? When I was in India recently, I sat at the breakfast table before my friend completed his yogic breathing. I had tea and checked my email. Every morning I heard what sounded like a woman having an orgasm. I was with my friend’s family and I didn’t speak Bengali and they didn’t speak English. They didn’t seem to notice, but, nevertheless, I felt embarrassed. I shared this with my friend when he joined me and he said, oh, no, Indian women don’t make noise. Really I asked. He assured me this was true and said she must be praying.

Well, I didn’t buy it! Later we continued our conversation, which lead to American woman being passionate and vocally expressive. I explained this was also a validation to their lover. This discussion of course was destined to end up talking about “faking it.” He had not even conceived of any such behavior by women and ultimately in my need to be right, I searched youtube on my Mac Air and found the famous scene from When Harry Met Sally.  (link here) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3hY7_CNuEQY

My friend was astonished and definitely humored by this funny scene. Then, the sound I had been hearing every morning began and I begged, “listen, listen there it is.” He looked at me with surprise and said, “she is praying.” Okay, he was right.

Right or wrong, I believe every sexual relationship has compromise. The hope would be that each person takes his or her share of compromise, but more often it is one person who gives in.  What is the cost?  Resentment, lack of true intimacy, aggression, depression, marital prostitution; I could go on. Most likely the couples separate at least emotionally, if not physically. Whether an affair ensues or not, there is an unspoken agreement, and they live as roommates, or what I call, married singles.

Delving so deeply into this topic, I yearn for a solution; so here it is.  To men I ask that you understand that foreplay is not rubbing up against a woman, telling her about how great you are, or beginning to kiss and fondle her with the expectation of sex. If you don’t have a satisfying pattern of sexuality, or if your intimacy is routine and stagnant, please understand.  For most women, foreplay begins at least anywhere from 12 – 72 hours prior to intercourse. Women are sensual and emotional beings. Engage their senses. Get to know your woman. Does she like her back rubbed with scented oil, to have you whisper in her ear or kiss the back of her neck? Is she responsive to the vibe of a candle or burning fire, to jewelry or flowers? Does she become stimulated by a romantic and succulent meal or a night on the town? These behaviors begin long before the sexual encounter.

To women who love men whose sexual desire overrides yours, please speak up. Men in general are not nearly as complicated as you might think. Communication is absolute, and generally women must take the lead in this area. Communicate, even when it is difficult and you keep hitting roadblocks. When you are together and sexuality is not the immediate issue, take some time to share what you like. Share whether it is better for you when you advance toward him with intimacy, or when he moves toward you with desire. Let him know what is stimulating for you and what sets the mood. Men in general love to please women! Give him the roadmap so both of you can enjoy the journey.

Candess M. Campbell, PhD is the #1 Best-selling author of 12 Weeks to Self-Healing: Transforming Pain through Energy Medicine. She is in private practice in Washington State (US) as a licensed mental health and chemical dependency counselor. Internationally she is an Intuitive Consultant, Speaker, and Seminar Leader.

This article was previously published in LiveEncounters Magazine where Candess is a monthly contributor.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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