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The Lover Archetype

by @candesscampbell

The creativity of your subconscious mind not only shows up in dreams, but also shows up as archetypes in your life. Archetypes are overlying patterns that show up in all cultures that are seeded in the psyche. Some examples of archetypes are mother, judge, teacher and healer. Today we will explore the Lover. When you begin to look at these patterns in your life, you can unleash your creative energy. You can access your natural path and move toward your Divine Soul purpose.

Leonard Cohen’s song Lover, Lover, Lover, rings in my ears as I explore the Lover Archetype in this series on archetypes.

“May the spirit of this song, may it rise up pure and free. May it be a shield for you, a shield against the enemy,” Cohen purrs. Love, being in love, being a lover brings forth not only the purity, freedom, passion, but also the enemy within: the jealousy, possessiveness, control and codependency. These are the sun and the shadow sides of the Lover archetype.

We all have an aspect of the lover archetype within, but I imagine when you think of your friends and loved ones, someone who embodies this archetype comes to mind. Whether they are passionate about life, about their relationships, or have a great passion for music, art or gardening, you can identify them right away

If your creative energy is connected to the Lover archetype, you may find that you sacrifice much for your ideals. It may be that others think you don’t live in reality, or that your view of the world through the lens of your heart is not realistic. The lover may characterize you as genuine, happy and giving to others. The shadow side could manifest as obsessive, possessive and scary.

There is also something about the Lover archetype that draws us deep into a sense of suffering. Think about the suffering artist, the struggling musician, and the one who gave up everything for love.

As morose as it may seem, my favorite song, another of Cohen’s greats, is Joan of Arc. Cohen is a contemporary musician who clearly understands passion.

It was deep into his fiery heart
he took the dust of Joan of Arc,
and then she clearly understood
if he was fire, oh then she must be wood.
I saw her wince, I saw her cry,
I saw the glory in her eye.
Myself I long for love and light,
but must it come so cruel, and oh so bright?

It was Carl Gustav Jung, who was the father of analytical psychology who gave us the concepts of the archetypes, as well as the collective unconscious and the understanding of introversion and extroversion. He identified the shadow side of the archetype as the part that was relegated to the subconscious because, due to its negative qualities, it was not easily integrated into the personality. In psychoanalytic therapy and in dream work, it is important to access the shadow and bring it into the light so that it does not gain power and cause you to subconsciously behave in ways that can be self-defeating or damaging to others.

We know of many instances where the shadow side of love has been destructive. One example would be of Guinevere and Lancelot. Guinevere was married to King Arthur and had an affair with Sir Lancelot. Lancelot was a knight, one of King Arthur’s favorites. This indiscretion leads to the undoing of the Round Table.

What about one’s love for their country? This can also be an outpour of the Lover Archetype. With this strong passion, one can get caught up in an uprising that can end up in disaster or war. The obsessiveness of the shadow side of love can be all encompassing.

Some of our greatest discoveries have come from those who gave their lives to find a cure, understand a formula, and take a passionate stand. In today’s world, workaholism can show up as an expression of the lover archetype. Creativity abounds when you love what you do! The shadow side of this may be neglected relationships or declining health.

It is time to examine your own life and find what stokes your fire. For whom or what would you be willing to give up everything? Whether you actually do it or not, what do you love to do the most? When you look back over your life, where has passion been the driving force behind your choices? Who makes you angry? What would you fight for? Where do you find your bliss?

The Lover may or may not be a significant archetypal pattern for you. As you reflect, take notes on other archetypes you identify. Think about how others see you. Is your career representative of one of your archetypes? For example a strong archetype for me is the Teacher. Interwoven in my life and career is being a Spiritual Teacher. It comes natural to me. What would you do with your time if you had unlimited resources and freedom. What is your natural path? What is your Divine Soul Purpose?

 

This article was originally published in Live Encounters Magazine.

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Being the Pole

by @candesscampbell

When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.
― Donald Miller, A Million Miles in a Thousand Years: What I Learned While Editing My Life 

Relationships are fluid and changing all the time. Learning to communicate is often challenging.  In this video I teach you to “Be the Pole.”  It is a great way to stay stable when you have a partner that is either reactive or continually changing their minds.  This is great for spouses, partners and even adolescents. It reduces stress and you can give up this pattern that tears at the fabric of your relationship.

 

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Communication and ADD

by @candesscampbell

Have you ever listened to a friend and thought “Can she even hear herself?”  We all have patterns of communication and behavior that we exhibit to the world. Sometimes you don’t even recognize what you are saying or doing is in direct contradiction to what you believe. Often you will notice someone judging someone else for the very behavior they themselves have! I see this often on social media.

I remember one day my daughter said to me, “Mom, you’ve said that before, several times.” Many of you know when I was 14 years old I had an accident that resulted in a Near Death Experience with head injuries. As a result of this I have experienced some memory problems. Another result of this trauma was I lost my sense of smell, which also influences memory. A positive from the accident is a definite increase in my intuition. When my brain was injured, my intuitive self took over and now much of how I access information is intuitively.

Unless you continually challenge your brain, you can develop memory lapses. Since my daughter’s comment, I have been working on being aware and not repeating myself as often. Repeating can happen for reasons other than memory problems and brain injury. When one has a history of not being heard or have not being listened to by others, they can develop a pattern of repeating. Saying the same thing over and over again can also come from a lack of self-awareness.  It can also be an ineffective way of trying to heal an emotional wound.  You may say the same thing over and over but nothing changes. It would be more effective to change your behavior by accepting a situation or changing your relationship with the problem; forgiving, leaving, setting boundaries and such. Saying the same thing over and over can also be a sign of ADD.

Have you ever had a conversation with a friend, loved one or a co-worker who often repeated the same thing and didn’t focus. Someone with whom you tried to create a plan, but politely getting them to pay attention, listen and commit to a time was near impossible? Instead they just kept telling you all the situations that went on in their day and you were not able to set a meeting.

So, how to do you communicate with friends, loved ones and co-workers that are ADD or have ADD
symptoms?

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Listed here are some of the Inattentive Symptoms of ADD; not the Hyperactive Symptoms. This may help you to identify why you’ve had some difficulty communicating with someone. It can clarify why you may have felt frustrated and hopefully will give you some helpful communication solutions for yourself.

Inattentive ADD Symptoms

  • Careless mistakes/lack of attention to details
  • Lack of sustained attention
  • Poor listener
  • Failure to follow through on tasks
  • Poor organization
  • Forgetful in daily activities
  • Avoiding tasks requiring sustained mental effort
  • Losing things
  • Easily distracted

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Depending upon how close you are to this person, you may want to research more about ADD and continue to learn.
Here are some simple ideas that may help.

  • Use emails as your primary form of communication to set up meetings. This way you can scan the email quickly for the details about the meeting.
  • Start your conversation with, “I have one minute to plan this meeting.”
  • When the person becomes tangential, politely bring them back to topic. “Oh, I’m sorry, I
    have to go, when did you say you could meet?”
  • Give the person 3 clear choices of times.
  • Be willing to set a boundary.
  • If the person won’t be decisive, realize the meeting may not happen and move on.
  • Plan your communication with the person when you have enough time to go through the
    process to get the meeting planned.
  • Have a plan B for your time so if their disorganization creates a last minute cancelation, it
    won’t disrupt your life.

These are some ideas that may be helpful. Again, if this is someone you live with or a supervisor, I encourage you to find more information on this topic. One book you may be interested in What Does Everybody Else Know That I Don’t?   Social Skills Help for Adults with Attention Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder by Michele Novotni, PhD   http://amzn.to/nxks8h

If you have another resource, please share with us!

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Does Your Psychic Tell you Everything?

by @candesscampbell

When I was first in training to develop my psychic abilities I was so excited to learn. I practiced with a friend who also took the classes. She was a nurse and I was a mental health counselor so I could see that her filter was physical and mine mental and emotional. We each had our strong suits, but we read the way we were taught.

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One tool we learned was how to see how “programmable” a person was. That was important. Some people take everything they hear and act on it without consulting their own inner guidance. I think it may have been Sylvia Brown who said that a good psychic is about 80 – 85 % accurate. I’m grateful that I get a lot of positive feedback from clients regarding my readings. Nevertheless, I always tell clients and friends to listen to yourself over any psychic, including me.

On a radio show where I was a guest, a young man called in who was entering into the military. The image I saw was that he would be in danger and may not come home. It was a split second decision I made to offer him to talk with me in private. I shared some positive information about him on the radio show and avoided talking about the blasts I saw all around him. In private I was able to read the situation and clear some contracts and curses that increased his ability to be safe.

 

Another situation was when I was teaching a Reiki class. One of my friends was taking the class and when I worked on her and showed the class how to get psychic information as they worked, I saw her body was full of cancer. Later, when we were in private I asked her if she was interested in what I saw. After telling her I saw cancer, she looked at me in shock, told me I was wrong and her denial about her situation was ignored. A few months later she joined the angels. Although I wondered if telling her were the right decision or not, my knowing she was full of cancer allowed me to be with her, comfort her and be healing in her life.

More recently a friend asked me to see if I could get any information on her lost dog. I thought about this, being a dog owner myself. It was a difficult choice to share or not. In this case, I saw the dog was safe and told her so. The images I got other than knowing the dog was safe was not necessary to share. It could have caused more confusion and pain.

You can see that being told everything the psychic sees can be confusing and overwhelming. I think that is the value of having over 30 years experience as a counselor. I like to focus on what with support the client and remove that which creates pain and suffering.

What clients generally receive from readings can differ, but listed below are some of the ways they benefit.

 

  1. Validation

Most often when I do a reading with a client they feel validated. They may come with a sense to the answer to their question. Having a psychic validate what they already know can be invaluable. It allows them to stop rehearsing the question in their mind, and relax and go on. And, it feels great!

 

  1. Peace of Mind

 When a client gets a reading and finds out the “why” of a situation, it can bring peace. Whether the issue has to do with a past life or a spiritual contact, it is helpful to understand why a job or relationship plays out the way it does. So often it gives my client permission to accept what is happening and to understand they are not responsible. All of us have contracts to complete.

 

  1. Clarity

 So often we need clarity. We get caught up in our view and stuck in our resistance and some clarity can be really helpful. The chakras that I read are full of information. Whatever is coming up for you is related to one of your chakras being out of balance. I use muscle testing to see which chakra and go about clearing, reading and answering your questions. I can attest to how important this is, as I also use a psychic friend to assist me when I need help.

 

  1. Connection with a Loved One

 What I love the most is seeing a client open their heart when I connect with their loved one who has passed over. When they see me connect to their loved one and they feel them in their heart, it is amazing. Not everyone who has passed over has been loving and kind. Helping a client understand what happened and why can be a powerful healing. When I connect with their person, it is a shared experience between myself and the client – seeing, knowing and feeling the person that they lost.

Interested in a reading?

If this is your first, I suggest a 30 minute reading.

 

 

 

 

 

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The Truth Lie Rose

by @candesscampbell

Thank you for all the emails asking for me to teach you to develop your intuition and Spiritual tools. Your feedback has inspired me to post this series of teachings.

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This is an alternative to using a pendulum, muscle testing or kinesiology.  Enjoy!

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Cosmic Energy

by @candesscampbell

In the series of Self-Healing Tools, today I am sharing with you Cosmic Energy. This is the Christ Light and it feels fantastic. If you have not learned Grounding and Running Earth Energy yet, check out my previous blogs.

This information comes from the work of Mary Ellen Flora and the Church of Divine Man.

I created a  12 Minute Energy Clearing Meditation Audio for you to use to Ground, Center, and Run your Energy. It will clear other people from your energy field. When you do this guided meditation, you feel much better! It is my Go-To practice for when I am out of balance, feeling ungrounded, or when someone has thrown negative energy at me.

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