When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.
― Donald Miller, A Million Miles in a Thousand Years: What I Learned While Editing My Life
Relationships are fluid and changing all the time. Learning to communicate is often challenging. In this video I teach you to “Be the Pole.” It is a great way to stay stable when you have a partner that is either reactive or continually changing their minds. This is great for spouses, partners and even adolescents. It reduces stress and you can give up this pattern that tears at the fabric of your relationship.
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This is so wise, Candess. Whether the person chases the more fluid one, or reacts in the opposite direction, it is always wise to become aware of the energy dynamic and extract oneself from the ‘reactive’ mode. The image of the pole is very helpful. Thank you.
Wonderful advice, Candess. Feel so blessed to have a Hubby who has been my rock, or pole for decades. Sometimes, the roles are reversed and it is my turn to give him the space to make his decisions and not give in to the urge to follow all his thoughts. I think he does a way better job than I do but I’m going to visualise that pole next time it becomes necessary. Thank you for the wisdom.